A lot of things have been going on in the last week! I participated in two house challenges, soccer and handball, in which my house, Mercia, won both! Yes, just like Hogwarts the students here at Harlaxton have been divided into four houses and are in constant competition with each other! I believe after our soccer win Monday night that we will be tied for 1st! Our latest competition is a snowman building contest, which suits the 5 to 6 inches of snow we have received in the last week. Also, Kyle and I have joined the Harlaxton volleyball team, our first game is tomorrow! I am also the point guard for the Harlaxton Lions basketball team, my first game I played with the team was this past sunday! (Brought home the W don't worry).
Deer here aren't afraid of humans! |
The Belton House |
This past Saturday Evan, Kyle and I met our "host-family" for the semester, the O'Neill's. They will not actually "host" us necessarily but will treat us to dinner as well as assist our travels and other great supplementary actions to our experience here in the UK. We began in the late morning with a short drive to their house, which is located in a historical district of Grantham. Their house is over 100 years old, but still in fantastic shape. Helen, a tall woman and mother of 4, worked as a pediatrician for many years before retiring this past summer. Mike retired after 45 years as an industrial chemist, needless to say the O'Neill's are a heck of a family. We also met their youngest, James, who stands at about 6'4" and could throw me like a football despite being a year younger than myself. I am excited to get to know James and greater understand the young culture that Great Britain has and how it coincides as well as contradicts that of our culture back in the states. After a fabulous breakfast cooked by James that consisted of fried ham and cheese biscuits with an accompanying sauce of our choosing, we went for a walk to the Belton house. During this one hour hike through the public park to the Belton house Helen, Mike, Evan, Kyle and myself became acquainted with each other, learning of each other's pasts as well as aspirations for the future. It was a long walk, I'll admit, but worth every second getting to know our family here.
After our return from the Belton House, some three hours later, we were prepared a dinner... A dinner is such an understatement. A feast that's inspiration was found in my happiness is a much better designated title. Baked gammon cooked in a honey mustard sauce, potatoes baked with sweet and tender parsnips, string beans and choice broccoli all accompanied by tasteful chatter around the table. Rejoined by James, the six of us enjoyed the dinner very much, specifically Evan, Kyle and myself. The Refectory, where our meals in the manor are, rarely displays a meal that is received with exclamation, or even satisfaction (but it is food so we eat it!). Then there was dessert... served with our second glass of hot cider (deliciously warm and fruity) we were so graciously given apple and blackberry crumble. Fresh blackberries were accompanied by apples and a crust so delicious that you could almost forget the ice cream and custard served in the very same bowl. Wow! I'll never forget that meal (and very much so look forward to the next one with the O'Neill's!).
After receiving some news this week that is a little perturbing from the family, it has become difficult not to think of them often. I never a day in my life would consider homesickness a challenge that I've had to deal with, but with recent events I'd be a liar to say I haven't missed home... a lot. As I reflected on this I began to remember the letter written to me by Jordan Minton before my departure. A wise and encouraging man who has poured much into my life, Jordan had these words for me knowing I would face these troubles: "When you feel homesick, lean on God. When you feel lonely, lean on God. When you feel stagnant, lean on God. And when you feel doubt, lean on God." I can't thank him enough for how he's poured into my life and he doesn't even know how he effected my past week. Nonetheless, I did what he recommended, I looked to God. As I did this I was shown several things, one that I am to expect nothing of this Earth. God provides salvation through grace and nothing takes precedence over that, no matter what the situation. I cannot expect the blessings I've received, I can't even expect what is considered necessity. As a follower of Christ I am not guaranteed shelter or even family. Instead I am guaranteed salvation because of the cross, I am guaranteed love from a creator, I am guaranteed God as a father no matter where I am. With this knowledge, my week became about something else, and thank God that it did. As opposed to focus on myself and the challenges my family has seen and will, I look to God and hope to serve Him in each and every way possible. I am here because of God, pray that I remember this in daily action and make it a participating part of my thought process. That I may not even speak to someone without hoping to love them as he has loved me.
I am confident in God and ask for your prayers that the joy I have is exposed on a daily basis. I do miss you folks back home! I will write again soon!
Mason